On the contrary, if you keep trying to change yourself so that you both have a lot in common, a lot of similarities, the tired person will be you. Will you feel comfortable and secure in that love?
Love is not a one-sided effort, much less a matter of meeting all the needs of the person you love and going their own way. Love must be a matter of two people, in every angle: caring, understanding, sharing and nurturing efforts must come from both sides.
True love is a love in which you both grow and perfect yourself, not one person trying to follow to please the other, much less makes you another. .